Object Relations Theory: the idea that the ego-self exists only in relation to other objects, which may be external or internal. The internal objects are internalized versions of external objects, primarily formed from early interactions with the parents. There are three fundamental "affects" that can exist between the self and the other - attachment, frustration, and rejection. These affects are universal emotional states that are major building blocks of the personality.
And they only show you those parts on tv. Most of the rest of them have been taken over by white people for profit and robbed of their true and original beauty. Not all, but white folks are evil and obviously envious and threatened by black people and our power which is why they've taken it from us with this horrible system that we're forced to live by.