"Temporary happiness isn't worth long term pain" I was thinking of a dieter faced with a temptation saying this to himself as part of his inner dialog of resistance, but it applies to all of life, doesn't it? This must be true because the opposite is certainly true: Temporary pain is worth long term happiness.
and I refuse to be nor do I have any desire to be just like her. I am above the self destructive ways of a lonely, sad, bitter, person with nothing better to do than find ways to bring others down to their level of hurting in order to feel better about themselves. <3, Lori