Not sure how to pin this. Originally, this spoke to me on a level of marriage counseling type advice. But really the link is a blog type article about a company. The article is cute, but still an advertisement.
I had to take a step back, get all the way real with my life, and ask mysefl why the hell I wanted a man who made it obvious with his actions, that he didn't want me? Why I kept trying for a man who never made the effort for me? In doing that, I realized, that he wasn't the problem anymore ... it was me. I had become my own problem by sticking around a bullshit situation, and I needed to fix my fucking self.