If you don’t like who YOU are when you’re with someone else, that’s a problem, and it’s time to change things. Relationships must be chosen wisely. Don’t let loneliness drive you back into the arms of someone you know you don’t belong with. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely. -- read: http://www.marcandangel.com/2015/01/21/8-toxic-beliefs-most-people-think-are-normal/
Dyer, Gregsen, & Christensen (2011) talk about taking risks in order to be innovative. Sometimes I don't take risks because I fall back on the whole "if it ain't broke don't fix is" mantra, but I need to remind myself to keep trying and look at risk-taking in different ways.