There’s no way to make divorce easy. However, if you can hold tight, believe in yourself, and learn how to manage your thoughts and feelings, there will be a light at the end of the tunnel. - Think Financially, Not Emotionally® http://thinkfinancially.com/2015/09/just-decided-to-get-divorced-11-strategies-to-get-you-through-the-transition/
I used to have a big problem with trying to tell myself people SHOULD love me and they SHOULD say sorry and they SHOULD be there for me. Psh, no one will do anything they don't want to do, people who want to know you will make time for you and if they don't you stop making time to think about them. :)
A Pre-Divorce Checklist - Divorce is never easy, but collecting information and thinking through some of the issues before you even meet with your attorney can help you move through this life transition as smoothly as possible. Here’s a checklist outlining the kinds of information you’ll need to gather and why.