I am not your teachable moment #ableism #racism.....omg so tired of "do gooder" volunteerism. Humanity is not for you to feel good about yourself. It is your human duty. No pat on the back in return. I want to scream and slap 99% of people at any volunteer event I go to. Quit petting the homeless. They aren't freaking dogs.
Narcissists insidious motives to destroy your reputation and vilifying you. They act the victim and gain sympathy. they next gain others to do their dirty work for them, a To isolate and silence. They want you to fear them and keep quite.