Oftentimes, pride gets in the way of reconciliation. Although the humiliation and defamation of character creates pain in you, learn to walk away from those fights that will get you no where. This is how cyber-bullies gain their power, from the constant back and forth arguing. Don't fuel the fire.
Please don't forget that slander, libel and defamation of character all carry torts and legal action can be justified and carried through to the fullest. Just remember this while your spreading lies to try and destroy my reputation.