Especially when the narc is on one of their rants. It drives them crazy that you would dare to be calm when they are accusing you & blaming you for so many things. Then to not react when they raise their voice, they can't understand what's going on. Literally it drives them crazy.
I'm finally finding my calm...truly thinking about the bigger picture helps. When you think of life as a whole, you realize how silly some things are and how others are important. Don't react to something out of your control. PEACE and CALM. Via @martine