What a beautiful way of knowing yourself. Every experience marks your life, and every single one matters because that's how you grow, you learn and move on. And all of this leads to you becoming a stronger you....!
Note: The style of pants— Can tuck any nice shirt under it. Tuck casual shirt and wear blazer. The shoes— They look comfortable, wearable to work. It could be done with flats as well, not to as potent an effect I think. The strap on the shoes are the most important part.