Totally agree. Recently I have had some really unnecessarily negative things said about me (one of them being called a narcissist- on a social media site). I can't control assumptions but I know who and what I am and I am not that. It's pretty sad when someone assumes you did something that you did not do and then tries to cause all kinds of spiraling issues by acting evil. For shame.
Don't chase someone who won't chase after you. Don't give to someone who doesn't appreciate you. Don't love someone whose not going to love you. And NEVER push a loyal person to the point they no longer care. It takes work to get a person to that point and once there ... It's hard to repair the damage