Shiva is nirgun. If you ever feel sad or dejected just say "I am Shiva and so I can't be sad. My innate state is to stay happy all the time in Sat-Chit-Anand or forever blissful."
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It takes a second to resolve age old miseries. The moment you genuinely forgive, you are liberated from that pain, person, situation or event that has been haunting you. Forgiveness is freedom.
Take a deep breath, light a lamp and invoke the Guru and you will notice it burning differently.