As well as with happiness. Your reaction and how you see things can be completely different than the reality. Too often we create our own misery by not allowing ourselves to be happy. No matter who it is, no matter what they do.. It all boils down to you.
I've said, I've seen some of the most beautiful women, turned completely ugly when their real self was revealed. In contrast to this, however. A beautiful heart will make someone "Love your curves and all your edges.. all your perfect, imperfections.."